Boredom
[bawr-duh m, bohr-]
Bored
[bawr, bohr]
“Back in my Day”
Growing up I was not allowed to say that I was bored. My father told me that there is never a reason to be bored. Life has too much to offer. Being someone who was home-schooled due to my hyperactivity in grade-school, this was a pretty difficult thing for me to grasp. I constantly craved input and stimulation to stay interested. How could I possibly have fun in the middle of nowhere, out in the woods, without my Gameboy in my hands, or at my parents’ get-together when no other children would be present? I couldn’t even sit through a full play-through of a board game.
It’s a Choice
The change has come slowly, but as I have matured, I have come to understand what my father meant. Every moment has so much to offer. All of our lives are finite and boredom is a choice. Do you want to spend your life bored?
Reluctantly, I started trying to focus more on the moment. I paid more attention to the conversations that my parents and their adult friends were having instead of wishing I was anywhere but there. Now and then I would even join in on a conversation with a “grown-up.” Because of this, I ended up learning a lot from them, passing the time much more enjoyably, and even learning conversational skills that have helped me all through my adult-life and professional career.
There are still lingering effects of my hyperactivity (I’ve never finished a full game of Monopoly), but I’ve come to learn that life really is an adventure and I’m going to make the most of every moment!
What about you?
Enjoying a morning cup of coffee while breathing in the fresh air of the woods
Very thoughtful way to pass on the wisdom. I’m glad you applied what you heard. That is what makes the difference in life.
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Really enjoyed this. I never knew you made a conscious decision to converse with adults. It seemed such a natural thing for you. You were so good at it.
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I thought some people might enjoy this short video of Louis CK addressing his daughter complaining about being bored: https://vimeo.com/98267560
I found it from an article on Fatherly: https://www.fatherly.com/louis-ck-hilarious-parenting-tips-1092721314.html
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